When you hear the good news that you're pregnant with your second or third child, you might be inclined to think you've got it all figured out. However, there are often distinct differences between second or subsequent pregnancies.
We’re here to share insights on how subsequent pregnancies differ from the first time around, so you’re informed and prepared before your little one’s arrival.
Fatigue
It's normal to feel tired tending to your children's needs, especially when another one is on the way. Many second-time moms report fatigue as an issue. With the first pregnancy, perhaps you could come home from work and grab a nap. With a second pregnancy, a little one often waits for dinner, bath, a story and bedtime. Rest is essential but not as easy to come by.
It's Show Time
Most second-time moms' baby bumps show much earlier, and they are often surprised that they need to transition into maternity clothes sooner. The rectus muscles aren't quite as rigid after pregnancy and seem to relax earlier, resulting in you showing earlier.
On the plus side, though, most second labors are faster, easier and less likely to require stitches or lacerations.
Minor Aches and Pains
Increased discomfort is a complaint our obstetric providers hear frequently from repeat moms.
A consistent report is more pelvic pressure during the second pregnancy. The relaxed pelvic and rectus muscles may allow the baby to settle into the pelvis earlier, adding to your discomfort. However, you don't need to worry about this creating any preterm labor or early delivery.
Telling Siblings
Another consideration is when to tell your children that a baby is on the way.
When and how to tell siblings or soon-to-be siblings depends a lot on their ages. Kids ages 4 years and older appreciate being an active part of the process. Show them pictures and let them come with you to a doctor's visit to hear the heartbeat. Ages 3 and under may not understand an infant until they can see them after delivery.
Increased Stress
The pressures of managing a home, children and a pregnancy (and sometimes work outside the home) can feel overwhelming. Today's mommies can benefit by taking a step back and simplifying.
It's important to give yourself permission to relax some of your normal standards. Preparing simple meals, not worrying about small messes and getting extra rest help you enjoy your child at home, reduce stress and appreciate your current pregnancy.
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